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📅 January 17, 2025 from 1 p.m. - Grand Opera - Offenbach
Discover the fascinating world of BDSM
Curious » The BDSM basic course/workshop for beginners and those interested on January 17, 2026 in Offenbach (near Frankfurt) . Learn BDSM in this unique intensive seminar.
BDSM » The pleasure of pain, dominance and submission, exciting and unusual kinky sex, or the deepest form of eroticism and passion.
Do you want a workshop that will inspire you?
Who inspires you?
The one that takes you to a new level?
Then you've come to the right place.
⚜️ Are you a beginner interested in BDSM, or already experienced and want to explore new variations, expand your knowledge, or refine your techniques? Or are you wondering: How does it work? And why? ⚜️
Especially at the beginning, people are often unsure and don't know how to get started, or they may have fears and prejudices regarding BDSM. However, these are completely unfounded. As an experienced Dom and workshop leader, I am very familiar with the uncertainty that many people initially feel.
But don't worry. I'll meet you exactly where you are, take you by the hand, and guide you attentively, expertly, and entertainingly through all the challenges. Even experienced players want to develop further and acquire new knowledge. This 5-hour intensive course gives both beginners and experienced BDSM practitioners a comprehensive insight into the fascinating, diverse, and wonderful world of BDSM.
"How can I integrate BDSM into my sexuality, or are your needs and inclinations even more intense?"
In this seminar you will learn the basics of BDSM, how to get started, what to pay attention to and what to avoid, safe restraint options, how to be creative yourself, safety aspects, different types of play, the correct handling of submissives, impact toys, toys and other items, and much more for safe and fulfilling BDSM sessions.
This course is ideal for people interested in BDSM who want to know what it is and how it works. It's unprejudiced, humorous, and eye-opening.
⚜️ The following topics are planned: ⚜️
• What is BDSM?
• How do I recognize my inclinations?
• Is this already BDSM?
• How do I tell my partner and what can I do if he doesn't want to?
• What to consider when dating
Does BDSM always have to hurt or be loud?
• Principles (SSC, RACK,…), safeword, top, bottom and other terms
• Role distribution: Dominant, submissive, switcher, active or passive?
• Sadism/Masochism – The pleasure of pain
• Communication with the partner before, during and after the session
• The correct handling of submissives, percussion instruments, toys and playthings
• What is useful, what is unnecessary.
• What is bondage and how does it work?
• How do I use wax correctly?
• Physical and psychological aspects, influencing factors, and safety
• How do I read my partner?
• How can I integrate BDSM into my sexuality?
• Kinky sex, BDSM as foreplay, semi-sexualized or even without sexual acts
• How does one act as the dominant partner?
• How can I relinquish control and let go?
• Do you like it rougher? Hand by the throat or hair pulling – but then really go for it.
• How can I have exciting and fulfilling sex?
• Session examples and how to design a session
• Secure fixation options
• What a session can look like
• How I can become creative myself
• Dirty talk
• Aftercare and much more.
The atmosphere is relaxed and informal – laughter is allowed.
⚜️ Here's what other participants said about my BDSM basic seminar: ⚜️
⭐ TOP – Workshop! GILLIAN lives and breathes the subject matter. He manages to engage every participant – whether an absolute beginner or someone with prior experience.
⭐ Broadening your horizons with a definition of BDSM, perfect for beginners and those with little to no prior knowledge. Gillian is authentic. You can feel his enthusiasm. His open, tolerant, and approachable manner makes you feel comfortable and not at all silly, encouraging you to ask questions. What other course offers participants who maintain their full concentration for 2 or 5 hours? This is exactly what we wish for in schools, colleges, universities, team meetings, and conferences. We will definitely attend more workshops with Gillian. Elke and Ron
⭐ We're still amazed by what a truly special weekend we had. And you played a significant part in making it so special. It was perfect for beginners (like our female partner). Your wide-ranging presentation, filled with vivid examples from the world of BDSM, and your inimitable charm and humor often had us smiling. It was our first time, and certainly not our last with you.
⭐ Gillian has tons of practical tips and conveys them with passion and humor. It's great how he connects with "his" submissive and clearly presents which attitudes and factors are good for a session and which can disrupt the flow. He also engaged the audience well. The two hours flew by.
⭐ That was a thoroughly successful event with many exciting and new insights into the world of BDSM. It could easily have been longer than two hours, as it flew by.
⭐ Gillian always manages to convey to course participants just how passionate and erotic BDSM can be, while simultaneously presenting the content with humor and without making light of the subject. I have several years of experience in BDSM and still always take away new insights from the workshops. The course is absolutely suitable for newcomers because Gillian manages to provide good insights into the BDSM world without making the topic intimidating for the inexperienced. He and his partner demonstrate practical examples that immediately create a palpable tension in the room. Great guy, great style, I'd love to see more workshops!
⚜️ THE WORKSHOP LEADER ⚜️
GILLIAN
• Rooted in the BDSM scene for over 30 years
• Dominant and sadistic master with passion
• DJ and organizer of kinky, BDSM & fetish events as well as workshop leader
• JOYclub certified 5-star premium event organizer
"For me personally, BDSM is the highest form of devotion and the deepest connection that can exist between two or more people. The trust required and the depth that develops between the participants are incomparable. That's precisely why it's so important to understand the connections and basics in order to avoid mistakes, to be able to completely let go, and to fully enjoy BDSM."
"Personally, I always find it very exciting to learn about new types of games and I love to broaden my horizons."
⚜️ Short facts ⚜️
Start: 1 p.m.
Duration: approx. 5 hours (including breaks)
Participation fee: €90 per person (may vary for short-notice registrations)
The price includes the course, selected drinks, sweets and a small snack.
Participation ONLY with prior registration.
The number of participants is limited.
⚜️ Target audience ⚜️
Anyone interested in BDSM, curious, enjoys experimenting, or wants to expand their knowledge. No prior knowledge is necessary.
Anyone can participate, including single women and single men. However, some practical exercises are done in pairs. To ensure a balanced and harmonious group composition, there is a waiting list.
⚜️ Dress code ⚜️
There is no strict dress code. Everyone is free to wear what they like. No one is required to undress.