Dress code at kinky parties
From “Fetish” to “Elegant Kink” – what does what mean?

Got an invitation to the next kinky party, but the dress code is confusing you? Don't worry, here's the overview you need. From "black only" to "theme night"—we'll show you what it really means and how to make the most of your look.

1. Fetish – Your fetish as a statement

This is about showcasing your personal fetish. Clothing can be striking, provocative, and deliberately push boundaries.

Typical styles:

• Latex or PVC outfits
• Harnesses, corsets, bondagewear
• Uniforms, masks, collars
• Boots with high heels or military look

Important: Show attitude – not just skin. It's the style that counts, not the degree of nudity.

2. Black Only – Black is the new sexy

This dress code stands for stylish uniformity. Everything in black – elegant, clear, focused.

For example, the following are permitted:

• Black shirt and black pants
• Lacquer, leather or power packs in black
• Optional: a targeted color accent (e.g. a red collar)

Why this dress code? Black looks stylish, reduces distractions, and creates a special atmosphere.

3. Elegant Kink – Style meets seduction

If you prefer something a little more subtle, but no less appealing, this is the perfect choice. The look is classy, ​​stylish, and yet definitely kinky.

Typical combinations:

• Corsets with long skirts or pleats
• Bodysuits with lace cape or choker
• Suit with leather harness
• Cocktail dress with bondage elements
• Satin blouses, fine gloves, masks

Rule of thumb: Seductive – but with class.

4. Underwear Only – Less is more

Lingerie becomes the main focus—but with style, please. The focus is on high-quality materials, a good fit, and a confident appearance.

Popular options:

• Lingerie, harnesses, body stockings
• Jockstraps, thongs, leather underwear

Tip: Pay attention to harmonious details and a well-groomed appearance in your underwear as well.

5. All White – Innocent? No way.

This dress code plays with contrasts. Anything goes—as long as it's white.

Typical outfits:

• White latex or leather
• Lingerie, catsuits, suits – all in white
• Accessories such as masks or veils in white are also welcome

Effect: White looks particularly striking in a dark party setting – and creates visual highlights.

Note: Every event organizer interprets dress codes differently. Read the invitation carefully, respect the desired setting, and use the dress code as a creative outlet for your personal expression.