๐ June 13, 2026 from 1 PM - Grande Opera - Offenbach
Discover BDSM: neuGIERIG ยป The comprehensive BDSM Basic Intensive Course/Workshop for beginners and interested parties
Discover the fascinating world of BDSM: basics, valuable tips, exciting examples for safe and fulfilling BDSM sessions.
BDSM ยป The pleasure of pain, dominance and submission, exciting and unusual kinky sex, or the deepest form of eroticism and passion.
Do you want a workshop that inspires you?
That motivates you?
That takes you to a new level?
Then you've come to the right place.
โ๏ธ Are you a beginner interested in BDSM or want to expand your knowledge? Or are you asking yourself: How does it work? And why? โ๏ธ
Especially at the beginning, one is often insecure and doesn't know how to find the right entry, or perhaps even has fears and prejudices about BDSM. However, these are completely unfounded. As an experienced Dom and workshop leader, I know exactly the insecurity that many people feel initially.
But don't worry. I will pick you up exactly where you are, take your hand, and guide you carefully, expertly, and entertainingly through all the challenges. This 5-hour intensive course provides both beginners and interested parties with an insight into the fascinating, diverse, and wonderful world of BDSM.
"How can I integrate BDSM into my sexuality, or are your needs and inclinations even more intense?"
In this seminar, I will teach you the basics of BDSM, how to find the right entry, what to look out for and what to avoid, safe tying options, how to act as a Dom, how to get creative yourself, how to let go as a sub, safety aspects, various types of play, valuable tips, session examples, the proper handling of subs, implements, playthings, and toys, ... and much more for safe and fulfilling BDSM sessions.
This course is ideal for people who are interested in BDSM and want to know what it is and how it all works. Without prejudice, humorously, and with a broadening of horizons.
โ๏ธ The following BDSM workshop topics are planned: โ๏ธ
โข What is BDSM?
โข How do I recognize my inclinations?
โข Does BDSM always have to hurt or be loud?
โข Principles (SSC, RACK, ...), safeword, top, bottom, and other terms
โข Role distribution: Dominant, submissive, switcher, active, or passive?
โข How can I turn my fantasies into reality?
โข How to act as a dominant partner?
โข The proper handling of subs, implements, playthings, and toys
โข How can a submissive partner relinquish control and let go?
โข Sadism/Masochism - The pleasure of pain
โข Communication with the partner before, during, and after the session
โข What is useful, what is unnecessary?
โข What is bondage and how does it work?
โข How to structure a session
โข How do I read my partner?
โข Dirty Talk
โข Safe tying options
โข Physical and psychological aspects and influencing factors
โข How can I integrate BDSM into my sexuality?
โข How can I have exciting and fulfilling sex?
โข Kinky sex, BDSM as foreplay, partly sexualized, or even without sexual acts
โข Do you like it rougher? Hand on the throat or hair pulling - but do it right
โข How to get creative yourself
โข Aftercare and much more.
It's all very casual and relaxed; laughing is encouraged. *g*
โ๏ธ This is what other enthusiastic participants say about GILLIAN'S BDSM Basic Course: โ๏ธ
โญ GILLIAN's BDSM courses are simply the best. You feel super comfortable and well looked after, everyone is accepted as they are. You magically apply your knowledge and let us all share in it. Thank you, thank you.
โญ TOP - Workshop! GILLIAN lives the topic 100%. He manages to engage every participant - whether absolute beginner or already with prior experience.
โญ Horizon expansion definition BDSM, perfect for beginners and people who have little or no knowledge. Gillian is authentic. You can feel his enthusiasm. Through his open, tolerant, and engaging manner, you don't feel stupid and dare to ask questions. In which course do participants maintain full concentration for 2 or 5 hours? That's what you'd wish for schools and colleges, universities, or team meetings or conferences. We will also attend other workshops with Gillian. Elke and Ron
โญ We are still impressed by a special kind of weekend. And you played a significant part in that. For beginners (like our female partner) it was exactly right. A broad lecture with vivid examples from the world of BDSM and inimitable charm and humor often made us smile *g* It was our first time and certainly not the last experience with you.
โญ Gillian has a lot of practical tips and can convey them with great passion and humor. It's great how he engages with "his" SUB and clearly presents what attitude and factors are good for a session and which can destroy the flow. He also involved the audience well. The two hours flew by.
โญ Gillian always manages to convey to the course participants how passionate and erotic BDSM can be, and at the same time to impart the content with humor, without trivializing the topic. I now have several years of experience in BDSM and yet I always take new impulses from the workshops. For newcomers, the course is absolutely suitable because Gillian manages to give good insights into the BDSM world without presenting the topic in a deterrent way for inexperienced / less experienced people. With his partner, he shows practical application examples that immediately create a spark in the room. Great guy, great style, more workshops please!
โ๏ธ THE WORKSHOP LEADER: GILLIAN @DJ_Gillian โ๏ธ
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Concentrated expertise: Over 30 years of BDSM experience
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Well-founded courses with an expert
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Above-average ratings from participants
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JOYclub-awarded 5-star premium organizer
"For me personally, BDSM is the highest form of devotion and the deepest connection that can exist between two or more people. The trust that is necessary for it and the depth that develops between the participants cannot be compared to anything else. That is precisely why it is particularly important to know what you are doing in order to avoid mistakes, to be able to let go completely and to enjoy BDSM to the fullest."
โ๏ธ SHORTFACTS โ๏ธ
Duration: approx. 5 hours (with breaks)
Participation ONLY with prior registration.
The participation fee may vary for short-term registration or limited availability.
The price includes the course, selected drinks, fresh fruit, sweets, and a small snack.
The number of participants is limited.
Do you have any questions? Just send a club mail to @Gillian_Events
Further dates:
Saturday, June 20, 2026
Saturday, September 19, 2026
Target Audience
Everyone interested in BDSM, curious, enjoys experimenting, or wants to expand their knowledge. No prior knowledge is necessary.
Everyone can participate, including solo women and solo men. However, some practical exercises take place in pairs. To ensure a balanced and harmonious group composition, there is a waiting list.
Dress Code
There is no fixed dress code. Everyone is allowed to wear what they want.

