Different: Creative & quiet Silent BDSM course

The somewhat DIFFERENT BDSM course with quiet play styles for after 10 PM, unusual play techniques & toys + creative session ideas at the OBSCENE Fair

DIFFERENT » The 2-hour Silent BDSM taster course with quiet play styles (for after 10 PM), unusual play techniques and toys, as well as creative session ideas, as part of the OBSCENE Fair for Eroticism, BDSM & Fetish in Karlsruhe.

Do you want a workshop that inspires you?
That ignites your passion?
That takes you to a new level?
Techniques and toys that amaze you?
Creative input and exciting session ideas?
Then you've come to the right place.

OBSCENE, the southern counterpart to the successful PASSION in Hamburg (M&A Messemanagement), will take place from April 24 - 26, 2026, in the Gartenhalle Karlsruhe. For three days, exhibitors from the world of eroticism, BDSM & fetish, gothic, steampunk, and burlesque will captivate visitors.

A unique shopping experience with high-quality, special, often handmade creations. And more than just a fair: At OBSCENE, live out your passions, your fantasies, your lifestyle! An extensive supporting program with workshops, shows, and evening events completes the fair.

⭐ OBSCENE NIGHT 2026 » EUPHORIA: THE OFFICIAL FAIR PARTY ⭐
Saturday, April 25 Obscene Night 2026 » EUPHORIA

⚜️ What possibilities are there to play even after 10 PM if the neighbors are sensitive to noise or the children are sleeping next door? ⚜️

"Silent BDSM"... sounds funny, but is completely serious. Especially in rental apartments, you can't be loud after 10 PM. Loud spanking is no longer possible, but there are so many play techniques or toys that are perfectly suitable or can be repurposed. And quiet spanking is still possible.

Quiet spanking? I'll show you how it works. But there are also other methods to make masochistic subs soar. Moreover, BDSM doesn't automatically have to be loud or associated with hitting or pain.

In this seminar, I will show you, among other things, quiet play styles for after 10 PM, unusual play techniques and toys, creative session ideas, self-developments, techniques, and toys that will amaze you.

This 2-hour taster course shows both interested individuals and experienced BDSM practitioners fascinating ways to play for exceptional and fulfilling BDSM sessions. Basic BDSM knowledge and an understanding of unusual play styles should be present.

The somewhat DIFFERENT BDSM course.

⚜️ The following topics are planned: ⚜️

• Quiet play styles for after 10 PM
• Unusual toys and play techniques
• Creative session examples
• Sharp and dull
• Hot and cold
• Delicate and rough
• Light and heavy
• Fast and slow
• Closeness and distance
• Loud and quiet
• Deprivation – sensory deprivation
• With hands and feet
• Serviceable bondage and what I can do with it
• Fixations
• Through marrow and bone
• SM without hitting
• Tunnel games
• Verbal and non-verbal communication
• and much more.

I don't want to reveal too much to keep it exciting for everyone.

It's all very casual and relaxed, and laughter is encouraged. 

⚜️ This is what other participants say about my 2-hour DIFFERENT Silent BDSM Taster Course at PASSION 2024: ⚜️

⭐ Incredibly good course. Apart from Gillian having a very likeable demeanor, he also has a very good understanding of BDSM. Whether beginner or long-time "pro," there was something for everyone!

⭐ That was a great workshop… superbly presented and gave me a lot of insights.

⭐ Gillian knows how to captivate his audience and make his lecture interesting, exciting, unconstrained, and humorous. Especially his open and relaxed manner made it easy for us in the workshop to follow him. His exciting demonstrations (literally) remain in memory, and the other ideas and tips were great for us too. In any case, this was not the last workshop for us.

⭐ A workshop that is anything but boring even for experienced BDSMers 👍
I left the workshop feeling electrified (in the truest sense of the word). Very varied with many new impulses or a refreshing of topics that one simply hasn't implemented for a long time.
A good mix of lecture, seeing, experiencing, and trying out with humor in places that didn't destroy the eroticism and, above all, with a lot of passion 👍👍👍

⭐ It was a great workshop and it's fun when you notice the passion in people for what they do

⭐ We are not entirely inexperienced and were therefore very excited about this workshop.
In any case, there were topics that you simply forget, even though you know them. That was a very good refresher of existing knowledge. Thank you for that. Buuuuut of course there were also many new inspirations and these ideas were immediately noted down. We look forward to the e-mail, because we will probably have to purchase one or two more things so that the sadist (and not only he) can enjoy the new ideas. We really enjoyed participating in the workshop. We would immediately participate in another workshop by Gillian.
P.S. Your voice is incredible (she says)
Thank you for this entertaining and inspiring workshop!

Original here: Experiences & Opinions on DIFFERENT: Silent BDSM Course Creative & Quiet

⚜️ THE WORKSHOP LEADER ⚜️

GILLIAN @DJ_Gillian
• Rooted in the BDSM scene for over 30 years
• Dominant and sadistic master with passion
• DJ and organizer of Kinky, Fetish & BDSM events as well as workshop leader
• JOYclub certified 5-star premium organizer

"For me personally, BDSM is the highest form of surrender and the deepest connection that can exist between two or more people. The trust that is necessary for this and the depth that develops between the participants cannot be compared to anything else. That is precisely why it is particularly important to understand the connections and basics in order to avoid mistakes, to be able to let go completely and to enjoy BDSM to the fullest."

"I personally always find it very exciting to learn new ways to play and I love to expand my horizons."

⚜️ SHORT FACTS ⚜️

Friday, April 24, 2026
Start time: 5:30 PM
Duration: 2 hours
Participation fee/Energy compensation: €50 per person
The price only includes participation in the workshop. The ticket for the fair must be purchased separately.
The number of participants is limited.
Basic BDSM knowledge and an understanding of unusual play styles should be present.

 ATTENTION: 
The JOYclub system only allows 2 event registrations per day, i.e. if you are registered for the fair and the after-show party, it is impossible to register for the workshop. In that case, please contact me. Simply send a Club Mail to@Gillian_Events or use the contact form on my homepage gillian-events.de.

 NO activation of external registrations via email! Please use the contact form on my homepage gillian-events.de. 

Do you have any questions? Just send a Club Mail to@Gillian_Events

Target audience

Everyone interested in BDSM, curious, enjoys experimenting, or wants to expand their knowledge. Basic BDSM knowledge should be present!
Anyone can participate, including solo women and solo men.

Dress code

There is no specific dress code. Everyone is allowed to wear what they want and what they feel comfortable in. No one has to undress either.