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📅 October 4, 2025 from 1 p.m.
Discover the fascinating world of BDSM
neuGIERIG » The BDSM Basics Course/Workshop for beginners and those interested on October 4, 2025, in Offenbach (near Frankfurt) . Learn BDSM in this unique intensive seminar.
BDSM » The pleasure of pain, dominance and submission, exciting and unusual kinky sex or the deepest form of eroticism and passion.
Would you like a workshop that will inspire you?
Who inspires you?
That takes you to a new level?
Then you've come to the right place.
⚜️ Are you a beginner and interested in BDSM, or are you already experienced and want to explore new styles, expand your knowledge, or refine your techniques? Or are you wondering: How does it work? And why? ⚜️
Especially at the beginning, you're often unsure and don't know how to get started, or you may even have fears and prejudices about BDSM. However, these are completely unfounded. As an experienced gentleman and workshop leader, I know exactly the insecurity many people feel at first.
But don't worry. I'll meet you right where you are, take you by the hand, and guide you mindfully, expertly, and entertainingly through all the obstacles. But even experienced players want to develop further and acquire new knowledge. This 5-hour intensive course gives both beginners and experienced BDSM practitioners a comprehensive insight into the fascinating, diverse, and wonderful world of BDSM.
“How can I integrate BDSM into my sexuality, or are your needs and inclinations even more intense?”
In this seminar, you'll learn the basics of BDSM: how to get started, what to look out for and what to avoid, secure restraint options, how to get creative, safety aspects, different types of play, the correct handling of submissives, percussion, toys, and much more for safe and fulfilling BDSM sessions.
This course is ideal for people interested in BDSM and want to know what it is and how it all works. It's non-judgmental, humorous, and broadens your horizons.
⚜️ The following topics are planned: ⚜️
• What is BDSM?
• How do I recognize my tendencies?
• Is this BDSM?
• How do I tell my partner and what can I do if he doesn’t want to?
• What to consider when dating
• Does BDSM always have to hurt or be loud?
• Principles (SSC, RACK,…), Safeword, Top, Bottom and other terms
• Role distribution: dominant, submissive, switcher, active or passive?
• Sadism/Masochism – The pleasure of pain
• Communication with the partner before, during and after the session
• The correct handling of sub, percussion, toys and toys
• What makes sense, what is unnecessary?
• What is bondage and how does it work?
• How do I use wax correctly?
• Physical and psychological aspects, influencing factors and safety
• How do I read my partner?
• How can I integrate BDSM into my sexuality?
• Kinky sex, BDSM as foreplay, partially sexualized or even without sexual acts
• How do you act as the dominant partner?
• How can I give up control and let go?
• You like it harder? A hand on your throat or hair pulling – but really
• How can I have exciting and fulfilling sex?
• Session examples and how to design a session
• Secure fixation options
• What a session can look like
• How I can become creative myself
• Dirty talk
• Aftercare and much more.
The atmosphere is relaxed and easygoing – and you can even laugh.
⚜️ This is what other participants say about my BDSM basic seminar: ⚜️
⭐ TOP – Workshop! GILLIAN is 100% passionate about the topic. He manages to engage every participant – whether they're complete beginners or already experienced.
⭐ Broadening your horizons with the definition of BDSM, perfect for beginners and those with little or no knowledge. Gillian is authentic. You can sense his enthusiasm. His open, tolerant, and approachable manner means you don't feel stupid and you feel comfortable asking questions. Which course gives participants full concentration for 2 or 5 hours? That's what you want for schools, colleges, universities, team meetings, or conferences. We will attend more workshops with Gillian. Elke and Ron
⭐ We're still impressed by a very special weekend. And you played a significant role in that. For beginners (like our female partner), it was just the right thing. A wide-ranging presentation with vivid examples from the world of BDSM, coupled with your inimitable charm and humor, often made us smile. It was our first time and certainly not the last experience with you.
⭐ Gillian has a ton of practical tips and delivers them with passion and humor. It's great how he engages with "his" subs and clearly presents which attitudes and factors are beneficial for a session and which can disrupt the flow. He also engaged the audience well. The two hours flew by.
⭐ This was an all-around successful event with many exciting and new insights into the world of BDSM. I wish it could have been longer than the two hours, as it was incredibly entertaining.
⭐ Gillian always manages to convey to the course participants how passionate and erotic BDSM can be, while also presenting the content with humor and without making the subject matter seem ridiculous. I have several years of experience in BDSM now, and I still always gain new inspiration from the workshops. The course is absolutely suitable for newcomers because Gillian manages to provide good insights into the world of BDSM without making the subject matter seem intimidating to those who are inexperienced or less experienced. He and his partner demonstrate practical examples that immediately spark excitement in the room. Great guy, great style, I'd love to do more workshops!
⚜️ THE WORKSHOP LEADER ⚜️
GILLIAN
• Rooted in the BDSM scene for over 30 years
• Dominant and sadistic master with passion
• DJ and organizer of kinky, BDSM & fetish events as well as workshop leader
• JOYclub certified 5 star premium organizer
"For me personally, BDSM is the highest form of devotion and the deepest connection that can exist between two or more people. The trust it requires and the depth that develops between the participants cannot be compared to anything else. This is precisely why it is so important to understand the connections and basics in order to avoid mistakes, to be able to let go completely, and to enjoy BDSM to the fullest."
“Personally, I always find it very exciting to learn new games and love to broaden my horizons.”
⚜️ Short facts ⚜️
Start: 1 p.m.
Duration: approx. 5 hours (with breaks)
Participation fee: 90 € per person (may vary for short-term registration)
The price includes the course, selected drinks, sweets and a small snack.
Participation ONLY with prior registration.
The number of participants is limited.
⚜️ Target group ⚜️
Anyone interested in BDSM, curious, enjoying experimenting, or wanting to expand their knowledge. No prior knowledge is necessary.
Anyone can participate, including solo women and men. However, some practical exercises will be held in pairs. To ensure a balanced and harmonious group composition, there is a waiting list.
⚜️ Dress code ⚜️
There's no dress code. Everyone is free to wear whatever they want. No one is required to undress.